One of the novels that we read prior to beginning our trip was a woman’s story about her travels in Peru. She created this grand proposal ensuring National Geographic that she was worth sponsoring because she would experience many great things on her trip to Peru. Her diary like short stories are indeed well done. What she admits early on, is that she felt in over her head and was not sure how she would live up to her end of the bargain; mainly attending a funeral, a wedding and a birth. This idea was inspirational. How great would it be to experience such life changing events in other cultures!! So unconsciously I too arranged such an idea in my head.
I have discovered that animals intrigue me. As Jay was reading through the Lonely Planet Guide he came across the Bermuda Landing Baboon Sanctuary and that became a must see. Yesterday we spent the afternoon ( and it was hot, some 30 degrees C) getting organized to bus out here. Belize’s first language is English. Creole is the language used on the streets, it’s like a short formed English slang, with a crazy accent. Though they are very different ( we find it hard to understand Creole) people are easily able to flip back and forth, though they say reading and writing Creole is miserable. The bus ride was stressful because we drove to beautiful remote areas and had no idea where we were, thus trusting others to help us along the way.
Indeed they did. We were dropped off right in front of the Community Baboon Sancutuary (CBS), where we were welcomed by Fallet Young the over seer and visionary of this wonderful place. He set us up in the educational facility, a huge classroom with a computer room (hence this letter.) For a donation we could sleep out on the floor. He hooked us up with a mattress and we made a fort under our bug net. He assured us that he would also take care of our meals. We paid our entrance fee and we were set.
Over the next day or so Fallet took us an a hike through the jungle and pointed out to us a vast array of medicinal plants covering ones that worked as contraceptives, pregnancy tests, ones to reat snake bites, heart murmurs and much more (apperently mahagony bark can be used to cure athletes foot)! Near the end of this walk, we were able to get up close to Black Howler Monkeys, where are only found in this part of the world. Angela was even able to feed a couple baby monkeys that were hanging by their tails out of a low hanging tree!! On our last evening, we spent over an hour walking with Fallet through the jungle at night. We were hoping to be able to spot some of the nocturnal animals that roamed there, but were dissapointed. None the less, it was a spectacular experience to be able to walk through the jungle at night with all of its sounds and atmosphere. Just standing there in the dark with our lights off, listening to the sounds of the night, seeing the stars peek through the overhanging palm branches was a magical experience. As meaning full as those experiences were, they were not the main highlight of this visti for us....
What our time in Bermuda Landing has come to mean for us, is by far our greatest experience of hospitality thus far. The past week was a very difficult one for Fallet, in about 7 days he lost his monther, uncle and most recently his brother. Grief over loosing his brother became an opportunity for us to see, hear and taste part of the Belizean culture. Last night (March 4) was the wake and today the funeral. Fallet insisted that we come to both and we were honoured to be there, though also feeling slightly out of our comfort zone.
The people here are amazingly honest and sincere. They were happy to have us present and did their best to ensure that we were well cared for. As we walked over to the wake Fallet explained that for most friends in attendance, this get together was like a party. It was a reason to celebrate. That theme ran through all that they did. There was much sadness and a few tears, but they were all in it together. At the wake there was a full meal for everyone and plenty of drinks. The mood was made festive as traditional church songs were played by the local band. Eventually the family took over and sang the songs themselves. Old favourite songs were being poured out with such intensity.
The funeral service was held at a church and similar to what we were familar with back home. It was a much smaller affair than the night before. It was somber feeling. Fallet was nervous about the eulogy he had to perform but mixed in a few fond memories and illustrations of his sense of humour to help those present remember his brother. From there the casket was moved to the burial site in a truck. The family helped lower the body into the ground and assisted as the casket was covered with cement and sand. The final act.
Everyone present joins together to eat. Another meal of beans, rice and meat was served (a common, traditional dish). Tonight the reality of it is settling deeper still yet. The exhaustion of the food preparations, making arrangements and hours of wakefulness have taken their toll. Through it all, the have tried to go on with business as usual, but for Fallet it came undone when the eulogy was complete. We don’t know what this man died from but we know that he will be missed.
Another chapter in our story…..