"You can't really capture Mexico in photographs or paintings, because they leave out two essentials, smell and sound."
A quote from Piecework by Peter Hamill
As a testimony to the author's conclusion, this blog has been our way of trying to portray those sounds and smells that we have encountered and share them with you. The pictures are the beginning of enhancing your understanding, but the words help to bring your senses to life. I hope that you have enjoyed the stories. Our time in Mexico is quickly drawing to a close as we nervously look forward to moving on. Our first stop will be Belize and from there we will continue through Central America. Our rough time line is to have Central America completed in 2 to 3 months. Our different philosophies about traveling will be tested as we rapidly move through some places and instead spend bigger chunks of time in one place ( at the expense of seeing everything.)
In conclusion to our time here we thought it stewardly to wrap up with some ideas we've pondered and conclusions that we have come to. Some will be funny, while others will be a challenge to you ( as they were for us.) "You can't really capture Mexico in photographs or paintings, because they leave out two essentials, smell and sound."
Time
. Since Jay returned from his trip to Nigeria he has become a slow walker ( much to my dismay sometimes.) Here the pace of life is slow, with much time spent sitting, gathered with friends or family. There are very few cars and instead people walk or take public transportation. With all of this combined (and much less hectic schedules) people are able to "just be" more.
. The siesta is still a major part of life. It takes place mid-afternoon after they've eaten their biggest meal. They've completed the majority of their work and since it is the hottest part of the day, why not take a break. People take a break from their work and put their feet up. Often you'll see our lady land (Dona Rita) lying on the couch watching some TV. They make up for it by working later at nights if necessary. Nights and hang 'n out start at 8 or 9 pm.
. "Ahorita" can mean anything from I'll do what you have asked in five minutes to five months. Meaning when the time is right for them the job will get done.
. If people aren't interested in a social engagement rather than flat out say no they won't be coming they say, which is considered rude, they say yes, even when they mean no.
Church Etiquette
. Pretty much every town has a large church in the down town core. The majority of the churches are Catholic (or some blend of Catholism mixed with native beliefs.) The churches are a focal point. Bellctowers are an important aspect of community living. The bells are rung to communicate with all those living near-by In Jalcomulco if there is a holiday, party or a funeral the bells will toll. It is completely random as to when they will ring, how many times the bell will be rung and for how long it will continue
. As people pass by churches you'll see them "cross" themselves and put their finger to their lips as a sacred kiss. Religion and it's many rituals still have a central role in peoples' lives.
Cuisine
. Fridges are not common here. In fact we have often seen them used as storage, rather than to keep things cold. Maybe it is a power consumption thing or it just could be that they make enough only for a day or two, so there a few left overs. Maybe the fridge is broken. Since they buy food on an as needed basis they don't have to store much in the fridge either.
. Most people have gas stoves, which are fuelled by large propane tanks ( maybe ~ 100lbs.) Once empty you call the propane company, or stop the guys as they drive by, and they switch it for a full one.
. Jay prefers shots of straight cana ( the local moonshine brewed with sugarcane) or tequila to vodka shots.
. Tequila is a much better with either carbonated apple or grapefruit juice.. Lime goes well with most light beers.
. We can handle jalepeno peppers much better now. Biting a seed still makes me sweat though.
Parties
. Quinceniera is probably the biggest celebration in any girls life. It is her 15th birthday, which is a celebration for her coming of age. It rivals a woman's wedding. The girls dress in gowns that are like what a bride would wear but they are any colour. They go all out with flowers and jewllery, in fact families save for years in preparation for this day. Mass is celebrated with friends and family, including 14 guys and girls who are the attendants. They must also be dressed fancy, often in matching colours. The parents share a "this is your life" type reflection. Many pictures are taken before everyone goes to a hall or to the street party where there is dancing, eating and partying that continues all night.
. In Jalcomulco they have a communal wedding day on Valentines. A couple makes their relationship public by leaving the community for a time with out really giving much warning or explanation. Eventually people figure it out. They then start their married life together and wait until the next Valentines Day to make it legal.
. Discos are big. They start at 9:30 and go till 2 am. Here you can hear the music for blocks since it is out on the street.
. Any time there is a celebration fire works are set off. This may happen at any time of day.
Bathrooms
. In public places you often have to pay to use the facilities. Think of it more as a tip to the person who does the cleaning. They may not have toilet paper dispensers, instead they hand you a thick, nicely folded strip of tp.
. Some toilet paper is scented (baby powder or chamoille are common.) It has nice little designs and pictures on it.
. Not all toilets have seats. Good thing it's warm here.
. Only in fancy places or in well to do people's homes are there shower stalls. Everyone else's bathroom is an open concept room. You gotta make sure to try to keep everything dry.
. Water may not come out of a tap. People have cement water reservoirs ( ~ 4' tall and wide and 5' or 6' long), in which the taps are left on for certain parts of the day because that is when there street gets water. It is then pumped up to a black tank on their roof ( but not everyone has one.) There is a local well that people can go to regularly. You can also pay to have some one fill up your tank.
. Occasionally there will be unpleasant smells as you shower. The shower drain is the same pipe as that used for sewage from the toilet. The shower drain has no trap, so the smells waft upward.
Culture
. In order to attempt to create order on the street while people drive, there are brave people who risk their lives by whistling and flagging traffic. They are dressed up very official looking. They stand in the center of streets waving one group of people forward and telling the other to stop. When it is go time, you hear them blow that whistle. Sometimes they are insync with the traffic lights, other times they are not.
. In an attempt to slow people down there is wide spread use of speed bumps or topes (toe pays) at they are called here. They have often been known to appear out of no where and grind the bottom of cars. We've have seen them made of cement, metal (shaped like half a coconut), rubber tires, sand bags, ropes and rocks.
. Though I was worried about geckos at first ( I imagined one scampering on me while I slept) I have come to enjoy them. There are transulscent ones that come out at nights and chirp. Other times you'll hear a little guy scurry in the bush and if you are quick you'll see them go. . Businesses are much more family oriented and run. Kids are much more involved, whether they are 6,16, or 26.. We love the regular emails reminding us that we are missed. Or those telling us about life back home.. Though I was worried about geckos at first ( I imagined one scampering on me while I slept) I have come to enjoy them. There are transulscent ones that come out at nights and chirp. Other times you'll hear a little guy scurry in the bush and if you are quick you'll see them go. . Businesses are much more family oriented and run. Kids are much more involved, whether they are 6,16, or 26.. We love the regular emails reminding us that we are missed. Or those telling us about life back home.
. Though I was worried about geckos at first ( I imagined one scampering on me while I slept) I have come to enjoy them. There are transulscent ones that come out at nights and chirp. Other times you'll hear a little guy scurry in the bush and if you are quick you'll see them go. . Businesses are much more family oriented and run. Kids are much more involved, whether they are 6,16, or 26.. We love the regular emails reminding us that we are missed. Or those telling us about life back home.
. Though I was worried about geckos at first ( I imagined one scampering on me while I slept) I have come to enjoy them. There are transulscent ones that come out at nights and chirp. Other times you'll hear a little guy scurry in the bush and if you are quick you'll see them go.
. Businesses are much more family oriented and run. Kids are much more involved, whether they are 6,16, or 26.
. We love the regular emails reminding us that we are missed. Or those telling us about life back home.
We have learned so much. We hope the pictures and stories impact you in some way.